When you come to the dating site you have the goal to find love. Finding love isn't something what can be calculated. It is a sometimes slowly process. In the rarest cases love occurs from the first moment. In truth love is something what must develop.
When you begin to write your first letters to some girls, you choose the ladies because of their beauty or their interesting profile. You will see, how well your conversation with your girls develops. With some women, it will be difficult to talk, while you have a good conversation with other girls. You will find a lady, who have same thoughts like you, you can talk about everything. When you found such a girl, don't hesitate too long, but visit her as soon as possible.